Comments on: Third Time’s a Charm http://www.pornocracy.org/blog/?p=72 the dominating influence of harlots Mon, 06 Sep 2010 05:52:34 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Smut & Steff » Just Another Manic Monday — And the Sugasm http://www.pornocracy.org/blog/?p=72&cpage=1#comment-462 Smut & Steff » Just Another Manic Monday — And the Sugasm Sun, 12 Oct 2008 18:46:22 +0000 http://www.pornocracy.org/blog/?p=72#comment-462 [...] Third Time’s a Charm “If I lift my kilt on Bourbon Street I’m much more likely to get arrested than if Elizabeth takes off her top.” [...] [...] Third Time’s a Charm “If I lift my kilt on Bourbon Street I’m much more likely to get arrested than if Elizabeth takes off her top.” [...]

]]> By: uunter http://www.pornocracy.org/blog/?p=72&cpage=1#comment-312 uunter Sun, 24 Aug 2008 15:29:50 +0000 http://www.pornocracy.org/blog/?p=72#comment-312 I apologize if I'm repeating comments--they're a lot to read--but hear hear. I am a Kinsey-1or2 male, and I heartily agree on all counts, especially the "creepy/predatory" stigma attached to guys who try to actively display their sexuality (if I ask a girl for sex, I can take no for an answer without stalking or raping her, so why should the asking be frowned upon?). I have long felt the same way, and will gladly send in some naked nerd boy pics when I have time and space to do so. I would add, riffing off of Erotic Librarian above, that the dichotomy of socially acceptable sexualities for males and females makes it a lot harder for males to experiment with bisexuality. It seems that if you're high on the Kinsey scale, you live with painful repression until you finally let loose and become a queen, and if you're low, then any sexual encounter with another guy better have a hot naked woman sandwiched in between. We get pushed to these extremes, without much recourse for a guy who generally feels "straight", but occasionally feels strong sexual desire for men (that's me), or any other shade of gray. I apologize if I’m repeating comments–they’re a lot to read–but hear hear. I am a Kinsey-1or2 male, and I heartily agree on all counts, especially the “creepy/predatory” stigma attached to guys who try to actively display their sexuality (if I ask a girl for sex, I can take no for an answer without stalking or raping her, so why should the asking be frowned upon?). I have long felt the same way, and will gladly send in some naked nerd boy pics when I have time and space to do so.

I would add, riffing off of Erotic Librarian above, that the dichotomy of socially acceptable sexualities for males and females makes it a lot harder for males to experiment with bisexuality. It seems that if you’re high on the Kinsey scale, you live with painful repression until you finally let loose and become a queen, and if you’re low, then any sexual encounter with another guy better have a hot naked woman sandwiched in between. We get pushed to these extremes, without much recourse for a guy who generally feels “straight”, but occasionally feels strong sexual desire for men (that’s me), or any other shade of gray.

]]> By: Erotic Librarian http://www.pornocracy.org/blog/?p=72&cpage=1#comment-311 Erotic Librarian Sun, 24 Aug 2008 04:45:30 +0000 http://www.pornocracy.org/blog/?p=72#comment-311 Excellent post. It was very refreshing to read a male's perspective, esp. on male sex/sen-suality. Porn has been flooded with lesbian-sheik and it's quite the thing for a girl to be at least bisexual and have sexual relationships with other women. I agree with wickedsilk21 about exposure to penises being limited. Not to mention when it comes to the aggressive mainstream porn, the penis ends up being the enemy for those of us who don't appreciate the way some porn has gone. I think I would want to see an honest, unposed man, who is happy. Sincerely. Not doing the macho pose or the deep glare that is more intimidating than sexy. Naked Nerd Boys? Sign me up! Excellent post. It was very refreshing to read a male’s perspective, esp. on male sex/sen-suality.

Porn has been flooded with lesbian-sheik and it’s quite the thing for a girl to be at least bisexual and have sexual relationships with other women. I agree with wickedsilk21 about exposure to penises being limited. Not to mention when it comes to the aggressive mainstream porn, the penis ends up being the enemy for those of us who don’t appreciate the way some porn has gone.

I think I would want to see an honest, unposed man, who is happy. Sincerely. Not doing the macho pose or the deep glare that is more intimidating than sexy. Naked Nerd Boys? Sign me up!

]]> By: wickedsilk21 http://www.pornocracy.org/blog/?p=72&cpage=1#comment-304 wickedsilk21 Thu, 21 Aug 2008 17:50:05 +0000 http://www.pornocracy.org/blog/?p=72#comment-304 Oh man, I was thinking about this the other day while thinking about the Abby Winters phenom as well as I Love Myself. While I'm not the most knowledgable on feminism, one would think that a push for male-centric porn would be out there, especially - one would hope - since women seem to be more comfortable with being open about sexuality and porn. I for one would love to see more sexy naked men rather than the run-of-the mill hairless twinks that you usually see doing solo scenes on Xtube, you know? I know I've had my problems with looking/dealing with penises but if, and this is just my opinion, women were more exposed to them the problem wouldn't be there. I am beginning to get more comfortable with the penis but you know, I could use some help. I guess until we make enough stink about it, nothing will happen but I'm happy that the discussion is out there. It's a first step. And I will definitely be on the lookout for Naked Nerd Boys. Oh man, I was thinking about this the other day while thinking about the Abby Winters phenom as well as I Love Myself. While I’m not the most knowledgable on feminism, one would think that a push for male-centric porn would be out there, especially – one would hope – since women seem to be more comfortable with being open about sexuality and porn. I for one would love to see more sexy naked men rather than the run-of-the mill hairless twinks that you usually see doing solo scenes on Xtube, you know?

I know I’ve had my problems with looking/dealing with penises but if, and this is just my opinion, women were more exposed to them the problem wouldn’t be there. I am beginning to get more comfortable with the penis but you know, I could use some help.

I guess until we make enough stink about it, nothing will happen but I’m happy that the discussion is out there. It’s a first step. And I will definitely be on the lookout for Naked Nerd Boys.

]]> By: alpha http://www.pornocracy.org/blog/?p=72&cpage=1#comment-303 alpha Thu, 21 Aug 2008 15:54:11 +0000 http://www.pornocracy.org/blog/?p=72#comment-303 It's been long waiting to be said, I myself have had this on my mind for so damn long! It mostly started when I took up drawing lessons many years back. It doesn't take too long to realize how beautiful the body is, and at the start you draw women because if your learning you still have this stupid thing inside of you that says "If I look at a naked man it makes me gay", who or what put that in my head??? Product of porn? Product of society? Penis should not be shown? Then at some point you get used to drawing the female body and you happen to exposed to drawing a male. At first you say... what is this? It's amazing, all the differences, why didn't I ever notice? And you realize how both are wonderful to look at in their own ways. Mostly how each has it's function and yet it's intermingled with sexuality. Anyways won't babble too much but the point is: If I take off my clothes, I feel like I'm saying: Hey I'm ready for sex! Ponder on that, why? Other cultures don't have this necessarily. A body is a body, be it clothed or naked, it's there and functions. Just because you take the clothing off doesn't mean it's a sexual act. I feel better now after reading what you said. It's sort of an awakening our society needs. Actually I wrote this naked... well with a bow tie... no just kidding. :P It’s been long waiting to be said, I myself have had this on my mind for so damn long! It mostly started when I took up drawing lessons many years back. It doesn’t take too long to realize how beautiful the body is, and at the start you draw women because if your learning you still have this stupid thing inside of you that says “If I look at a naked man it makes me gay”, who or what put that in my head??? Product of porn? Product of society?

Penis should not be shown? Then at some point you get used to drawing the female body and you happen to exposed to drawing a male. At first you say… what is this? It’s amazing, all the differences, why didn’t I ever notice? And you realize how both are wonderful to look at in their own ways. Mostly how each has it’s function and yet it’s intermingled with sexuality.

Anyways won’t babble too much but the point is: If I take off my clothes, I feel like I’m saying: Hey I’m ready for sex! Ponder on that, why? Other cultures don’t have this necessarily. A body is a body, be it clothed or naked, it’s there and functions. Just because you take the clothing off doesn’t mean it’s a sexual act.

I feel better now after reading what you said. It’s sort of an awakening our society needs. Actually I wrote this naked… well with a bow tie… no just kidding. :P

]]> By: Lady Johanna http://www.pornocracy.org/blog/?p=72&cpage=1#comment-297 Lady Johanna Wed, 20 Aug 2008 10:08:04 +0000 http://www.pornocracy.org/blog/?p=72#comment-297 Personally, what I want to see is a hot man on his knees with his hand cuffed behind him. I'm bi, so I like pretty similar imagery as with women. It's not all about exactly what I want to see in though. There's a "feeling" to pornographic imagery based on the production values, and it's not about the gender of who is in the shot, but if there's a focus on fantasy and on lighting, if there's a story, decent sound, etc. Most of the time, I prefer textual porn over images simply because images and video are so poorly done. Personally, what I want to see is a hot man on his knees with his hand cuffed behind him. I’m bi, so I like pretty similar imagery as with women.

It’s not all about exactly what I want to see in though. There’s a “feeling” to pornographic imagery based on the production values, and it’s not about the gender of who is in the shot, but if there’s a focus on fantasy and on lighting, if there’s a story, decent sound, etc.

Most of the time, I prefer textual porn over images simply because images and video are so poorly done.

]]> By: Catalina Loves » Blog Archive » Catalina loves Masculinity http://www.pornocracy.org/blog/?p=72&cpage=1#comment-291 Catalina Loves » Blog Archive » Catalina loves Masculinity Sun, 17 Aug 2008 21:45:27 +0000 http://www.pornocracy.org/blog/?p=72#comment-291 [...] a series started by Ellie on Lumpesse.com on Masculinity and the similar musings of Gabe, from Pornocracy.org, who has just started the Naked Blog Boy Roundup.  He wrote his own post about [...] [...] a series started by Ellie on Lumpesse.com on Masculinity and the similar musings of Gabe, from Pornocracy.org, who has just started the Naked Blog Boy Roundup.  He wrote his own post about [...]

]]> By: The Best Sex Bloggers » Nekkid Blog Boy Roundup http://www.pornocracy.org/blog/?p=72&cpage=1#comment-269 The Best Sex Bloggers » Nekkid Blog Boy Roundup Sun, 10 Aug 2008 20:25:21 +0000 http://www.pornocracy.org/blog/?p=72#comment-269 [...] ago, after a long, rambling exploration of a lot of issues surrounding maleness and sexuality, I issued a call for the sexy boy bloggers of the world to stand up, naked and proud, and get to work on creating [...] [...] ago, after a long, rambling exploration of a lot of issues surrounding maleness and sexuality, I issued a call for the sexy boy bloggers of the world to stand up, naked and proud, and get to work on creating [...]

]]> By: Bad Bad Girl » Post Topic » The Week in Sugasm http://www.pornocracy.org/blog/?p=72&cpage=1#comment-268 Bad Bad Girl » Post Topic » The Week in Sugasm Sun, 10 Aug 2008 05:48:42 +0000 http://www.pornocracy.org/blog/?p=72#comment-268 [...] Third Time’s a Charm “If I lift my kilt on Bourbon Street I’m much more likely to get arrested than if Elizabeth takes off her top.” [...] [...] Third Time’s a Charm “If I lift my kilt on Bourbon Street I’m much more likely to get arrested than if Elizabeth takes off her top.” [...]

]]> By: Sugasm 143, better late than never « Sapphire J http://www.pornocracy.org/blog/?p=72&cpage=1#comment-265 Sugasm 143, better late than never « Sapphire J Sat, 09 Aug 2008 23:16:14 +0000 http://www.pornocracy.org/blog/?p=72#comment-265 [...] Third Time’s a Charm “If I lift my kilt on Bourbon Street I’m much more likely to get arrested than if Elizabeth takes off her top.” [...] [...] Third Time’s a Charm “If I lift my kilt on Bourbon Street I’m much more likely to get arrested than if Elizabeth takes off her top.” [...]

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