Day 6 of Kink: Fantasies!

The questions for “30 Days of Kink” can be found here. Play along at home! We’d love to see your answers here or on your own blog.

Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting a sexual fantasy. [We don’t really pay attention to what’s “normal”, so labelling something “weird” is odd to us. We also find all of our fantasies interesting, or they wouldn’t be our fantasies! So we edited this question a bit.]

Gabe: This is kind of a tough assignment. I used to have all kinds of fantasies, things I’d store in my mind and return to over and over. These days, fantasies are more often just… plans! I used to fantasize about having a d/s relationship, and now I have a de facto one with Elizabeth and I’m building a more structured one with Kristi. I used to fantasize about group sex, and now I have lots of group sex. I hear fantasies from those I’m involved with and we start working out the details to make them come to life. True, some of them are best left unfulfilled (generally for safety and health concerns), but even then they often end up leading into some permutation that we can act on.

So really, my fantasy? It’s my life.

Elizabeth: One of my most common fantasies involves having a lot of cocks to play with all at once. Sometimes it’s a playful fantasy, and sometimes it’s consensual nonconsent. Sometimes it’s a fantasy of my adult self, and sometimes it’s an ageplay fantasy. I know I find the idea hot, and I have to believe that at least in some situations, the real-life sensations would be amazing too. Gabe and I are beginning to ponder how to explore that.

Here I mention a fantasy that I do intend to act on at some point, but it’s also important to me to let some of my fantasies remain just that. They’re just as valuable as stories in my head, or stories I tell a lover. For all kinds of different reasons, some very hot ideas don’t have to be acted on.

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